It is a MUST to play with your cats OFTEN, if not daily. Playing with your cat(s) is a great way to bond, ensure they get some exercises & also expels pent up energy.

Howver, there are some common mistakes that owners may unintentionally make.

Let us discuss 6 Mistakes Cat Owners Make when Playing with Their Cats.

1. Not Being Mentally Present:

I hear this all the time, "No, my cat doesn't like to play!" More often, it's because he doesn't like HOW you play with him.

We are all guilty of it! After a long day's work, we just want to wind down in front of the TV or mindlessly scroll through our phone, but remember, you chose to be a pawrent & that means commitment & responsibility! Be present when you play with them, watch their body language, do not be lazy to just keep batting the toy or just dragging it across the floor for half hour like a programmed robot.

You cat knows when you are into it & they enjoy when you participate with them.

2. Using Hands as Toys:

Avoid using your hands as playthings as this can encourage aggressive behavior & biting.

This is a bad habit that is often inculcated when the cat is a kitten. It may be adorable when they are young and smol, but they will get into the habit & as they grow older, it hurts. Ouch!

Using your hands or fingers to play can encourage rough play or biting behavior. It's important to use appropriate toys to interact with your cat to prevent them from associating your hands with play & potentially causing injury.

3. Overstimulation:

It is important to recognize when your cat needs a break. Overstimulation can lead to stress, anxiety or aggressive behavior. Pay attention to your cat's body language, & if your cat shows signs of overstimulation, such as flattened ears, dilated pupils, or swatting, give them some time alone to calm down.

Cats who are overstimulated may also redirect their aggression to another cat or someone else.

4. Inconsistent Playtime:

Cats thrive on routine & inconsistent playtime can lead to boredom or frustration. Setting aside a regular play schedule (especially around meal times) help to keep your cat mentally & physically stimulated. Consistency helps create a positive association with playtime & cats do better when they can expect what's next.

In Jackson Galaxy’s words, Eat, Play, Love.

5. Neglecting Individual Preferences:

Each cat is unique & this means that their preferences for toys & play can vary. Some cats may prefer stalking & pouncing, while others enjoy chasing & swatting a feathered toy. Pay attention attention to your cat's preferred play style & tailor your playtime accordingly. Understanding and respecting your cat's individual preferences will make playtime more enjoyable for everyone.

6. Not Allowing "Capture" at the End:

Your cat is a natural predator who has domesticated himself. In the wild, big cats stalk, chase, pounce, attack & play with their victim before devouring. Yes, you heard that right!

It is crucial to let your cat have a "capture" moment. This mimics the natural hunting sequence where the cat catches its prey. Allow your cat to catch &"kill" the toy at some point by letting it "die" when your cat catches it & bites it for a while, before "reviving" it again! This satisfies their hunting instincts & provide a sense of accomplishment. Add a, "Good job!" to make them feel proud of their handiwork.

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